PandaGirl asked:
Hi, can anyone tell me which spyphone product is the best? I’ve been doing some research and its too tough to decide which one to buy, especially for a non techie like me.. I suspect my spouse is cheating, but want to find out first. Any help or info would be greatly appreciated.

May 18th, 2010 at 7:02 pm
ok, so you want us to help you ruin your life? You should google, : “how to be a good wife”.. that should help out your problem . : D
May 20th, 2010 at 6:38 am
I don’t know but if you find one, let me know : )
May 20th, 2010 at 4:47 pm
Many cities have a “spy shop” anymore that seel this stuff, and what you’re doing is so common that they’ll have several products to suggest. You don’t have to have anything complicated – very likely all you’re looking for is a basic unit that activates whenever the phone is off-hook. Maybe you care about date/time of the calls, maybe not.
May 23rd, 2010 at 11:06 pm
I agree with brother Otter.
May 26th, 2010 at 4:08 am
They have all kinds of products at the Spy Supply. But I will warn you, it can be more than you are ready for. I was talking to the shop owner in Dallas, and he said once a woman bought a bug to try to catch her husband, and not only caught him cheating with two girls, but that her son was a drug dealer, and her daughter was an escort girl. It was too much for this poor lady. It made her life a real hell just to find out if she had a cheater.
Some would say they would want to know all the same, but at the same time, it can be very disappointing, and ruin your whole reason for going to work and doing all you do.
May 29th, 2010 at 9:30 am
If you suspect something is up, you are most likely correct. You have two options: Have an open relationship with your husband so you both can date outside of the marriage, or leave him.
May 31st, 2010 at 2:50 pm
not sure but if you don’t trust your hubby 100% right now then i have to ask why? what did he do behavoiral changes or something?
June 2nd, 2010 at 5:34 pm
If you suspect your spouse of cheating on you, you’ll want to read this
June 3rd, 2010 at 4:47 pm
Be prepared for a lot of heartache. I started spying on wife, when I found out she was spending a lot of time with an old ex-boyfriend. The problem is that you will only hear or read parts of a story, and have to fill in the blanks for yourself. Our imagination is usually worse than reality. It was the worst time of my life. Your energy might be better spent trying to figure out what is wrong with your marriage that would cause him to cheat, and try to fix that if you still love him.
June 3rd, 2010 at 11:43 pm
Hire a private investigator. That’s one of the most thorough ways. The best thing is P.I.’s are really easy to get a hold of. =) That way you don’t have to worry about snooping. Someone else will do it for you.
June 5th, 2010 at 2:24 pm
To answer your question, you really need to know the following:
1) can you get access to the target phone?
2) what type of operating system does the phone have? Symbian (many of the new Nokias, Windows Mobile (looks like Windows XP, but on a mobile, Blackberry, or other)
3) Budget? More than $100?
If you can answer “yes” to the first question, and then if the target phone is either a Symbian, Windows Mobile, or BlackBerry phone, and your budget is more than $100, I would recommend Flexispy Software. They are the leading company in the spy phone space, and their software allows you to do things such as 1) log incoming/outgoing sms, log incoming/outgoing calls, track location, live call intercept, and read incoming/outgoing emails. I’ve done a lot of research into all the spy phone products, and nothing comes close.