PandaGirl questioned:
Hi, can anyone tell me which spyphone product is the best? I’ve been doing some research and its too tough to choose which one to buy, especially for a non techie like me.. I suspect my spouse is cheating, but want to find out initially. Any help or info would be greatly appreciated.
Tags: Cheating Spouse, Spouse Cheating, Techie

ok, so you want us to help you ruin your life? You should google, : “how to be a excellent wife”.. that should help out your conundrum . : D
I don’t know but if you find one, let me know : )
Many cities have a “spy shop” any longer that seel this stuff, and what you’re doing is so ordinary that they’ll have several products to suggest. You don’t have to have anything complicated – very likely all you’re looking for is a basic unit that activates whenever the phone is off-hook. Maybe you care in this area date/time of the calls, maybe not.
I agree with brother Otter.
They have all kinds of products at the Spy Supply. But I will warn you, it can be more than you are ready for. I was talking to the shop owner in Dallas, and he said once a woman bought a bug to try to catch her husband, and not only trapped him cheating with two girls, but that her son was a drug dealer, and her daughter was an escort girl. It was too much for this poor lady. It made her life a real hell just to find out if she had a cheater.
Some would say they would want to know all the same, but at the same time, it can be very disappointing, and ruin your total wits for going to work and doing all you do.
If you suspect something is up, you are most likely right. You have two options: Have an open relationship with your husband so you both can date further than of the wedding ceremony, or leave him.
not sure but if you don’t trust your hubby 100% right now then i have to question why? what did he do behavoiral changes or something?
If you suspect your spouse of cheating on you, you’ll want to read this
Be prepared for a lot of heartache. I started spying on wife, when I found out she was spending a lot of time with an ancient ex-boyfriend. The conundrum is that you will only hear or read parts of a tale, and have to fill in the blanks for yourself. Our imagination is usually worse than reality. It was the worst time of my life. Your energy might be surpass washed-out trying to figure out what is ill-treat with your wedding ceremony that would cause him to cheat, and try to fix that if you still like him.
Hire a private investigator. That’s one of the most thorough ways. The best thing is P.I.’s are really simple to get a hold of. =) That way you don’t have to worry in this area snooping. Someone else will do it for you.
To answer your question, you really need to know the following:
1) can you get access to the butt phone?
2) what type of operating system does the phone have? Symbian (many of the new Nokias, Windows Mobile (looks like Windows XP, but on a mobile, Blackberry, or other)
3) Budget? More than $100?
If you can answer “yes” to the initially question, and then if the butt phone is either a Symbian, Windows Mobile, or BlackBerry phone, and your budget is more than $100, I would recommend Flexispy Software. They are the leading company in the spy phone space, and their software allows you to do things such as 1) log incoming/outgoing sms, log incoming/outgoing calls, footstep place, live call intercept, and read incoming/outgoing emails. I’ve done a lot of research into all the spy phone products, and nothing comes close.