Mar
16
J’adore questioned:
I reckon my boyfriend might be cheating. I found pictures of other women on his computer. I don’t reckon he’s physically cheating. But, he might be talking to these women online and swapping pictures, etc.
I’m not sure though. How do I confront him with out him getting defensive and denying it.
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ok for a start im a guy.. so u got a guys point of view here..if i knew that my girlfriend suspected me of cheating on her i would just want her to to right out with it and tell me what she thinks.. hope this helps =]
Looking isn’t cheating….why not just question him frankly. If you are insecure with him looking perhaps the relationship is not for you.
I answered your other question and i’m going to give the same advice!
If he’s been leaving the house a lot and your getting worried in this area it, tell him your worried for your relationship! If he really did care in this area you then he would never cheat but maybe you guys havent been communicating a lot lately and he feels that you dont want him any longer… let him know how much you care in this area him before saying your worried and if he still doesnt stop going out….tell him your worried! I’ve been in a similiar situation and everything i have said i did and it helped me! excellent luck!